Personality
development:
By
personality development we did not onle mean the development
of the body but also the development of the mind. Here we are
giving you tips to develop your soul and Mind. You can get more
tips on devloment of the body in the Diet and Life style session
of this web site.
The following ten sins should be avoided which are pertaining
to body, speech and mind.
1.
Himsa--- {Causing injury, torture etc. );
2. Steya ---( Stealing, Robbing etc. );
3. Anyathakama ---(Unlawful sexual activity.)
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4. Paisunyam ---{ Abusive speech ) ;
5. Parusham --- (Harsh speech ) ;
6. Anrtam --- (Scolding );
7. Sabhinnalapam --- (Speech causing separation,
breaking company.); Vypyda--(Intention to harm );
8. Abhidya --- (Jealousy. ) ;
9. Drik viparyaya ---(Finding faults. )
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Friends
should be served with affection and good deeds, where as others
should be kept at a distance.
Those who have no means of livelihood, who are suffering from
diseases and who are afflicted with grief should be helped to
get over the troubles to the utmost extent.
Even insects and ants should be treated with compassion and
kindness just as one's own self. One should be very helpful
even to his foes, even though they are not helpful.
One should maintain a single mind or balanced mind during the
period of wealth as well as the period of calamity.
One should speak appropriate to the occasion with words which
are good, in brief, which are not untrue and which is pleasing.
One should start conversing with others first with a pleasant
face, should be virtuous, kind and soft, should not be comfortable
and happy alone (should make others also like himself) should
neither believe every body nor suspect every one, should not
reveal that someone is his foe, and that he is an enemy of someone
else, should not make public insults he had a disaffection towards
the master. The sense organs should not be troubled or strained
very much.
One should always wear precious stones potent hymns and herbs
kept inside amulets on the person's body.
One should not sneeze, laugh or yawn without covering his mouth.
In all dealings or activities, one should adopt the middle mean
only - avoiding the extremities.
For an intelligent person the whole world is a teacher, hence
one should imitate the worldly actions after carefully considering
their meaning and effects of such actions.
The daily regimen should be modified paying due consideration
to the age, sex, region, strength, digestive power, constitution,
mental health and diseased state.
The spirit and the principles of health behind every rule of
right conduct is to be given importance to and followed, if
necessary with suitable changes.
They should not be practiced blindly as routine rites, discretion
to select the ideal ones, is the need of the hour and not total
adoption or rejection blindly.